The two month rule While of course its different for everyone, according to relationship psychologist and data analyst Claire Stott, 2 months is an optimum amount of time for the average couple to date before they start a relationship.

How many times should you see someone before dating?

For best results, meeting her one to three times a week is a great idea. This will ensure she doesnt feel suffocated and will maintain her interest in you. The biggest upside to this strategy is that your relationship will progress naturally and as quickly or as slowly as you both want it to.