The biggest difference between hookup and dating is the emotional attachment and intent you had about the person from the beginning of your arrangement. A hookup can progress into something more when there are mutual feelings involved, Silva says.

How do you let a guy know you only want to hook up?

Try something along the lines of: “Ive been having a lot of fun and Im just wondering what youre looking for out of this.” Let her know that you dont need an answer immediately, but that youd like to talk about it before this goes too far.