As long as youre active and Like everyone youre interested in, youll always know who Likes you back, for free. If you want to see the full list of who likes you (even if you havent liked them yet) you can upgrade to Premium.

How do you see who likes you on OkCupid?

Tapping the blue star brings up the “Likes” section of OkCupid. From there, you can see which profiles youve already liked. And if youre an A-List member, you can see all the profiles of users who have “liked” you already.

Can they see my message on OKCupid?

They will not be told that you Passed on their profile. They also will not see your profile again on the site, and you wont see them, so it wont be awkward. If youd prefer to tell someone in a message that youre not interested, thats fine!