Why are some people not ready to date?

Saying Im not ready to date could also mean theyre anxious about losing their independence, Lillian Rishty, LCSW, a psychotherapist who focuses on relationships and anxiety, tells Bustle. They may begin to feel trapped or fear giving up their own interests, hobbies, and time.

How do I know Im not ready to date?

Not being able to fully trust someone over time that you let into your life is a sign youre not ready to date. Although you may want love and to be loved, lacking trust in your relationship from the past will make it difficult for you to emotionally attach to someone because you dont want to get hurt.

Why do guys say theyre not ready for a relationship?

Paul: “Im not ready” is a guys way of saying one of two things: (1) “Were moving at different paces, and I need you to allow me to move at my own pace,” or (2) “Im just not that into you, but I dont want to hurt your feelings.”