Your messages may not be showing up in your inbox even though you got a notification of a new message because: The person who sent you the message has actually decided to delete their account before you were able to read the message they sent you. All messages are deleted after an account is closed.

Why are my messages not being sent on POF?

There are several reasons why one may face the “POF messages not sending” issue. The recipient uses a “mail setting” that restricts you from contacting them through POF. In this case, your messages will automatically get deleted. Your profile may have been flagged by some users and it is currently under review.