How long should you be talking before dating long distance?

An important question everyone seeking long distance relationship advice asks is how long you can go without seeing your partner. Ideally every three months is the minimum, says Rami Fu, a dating coach and expert, although your timeframe can vary as long as you agree on it together.

How often do most long-distance couples see each other?

Every visit is a reminder of why the distance is worth it. According to Dr. Guldner at The Center for the Study of Long-distance Relationships, the average couple visits each other 1.5 times a month. In some cases, partners have to go months without seeing each other.