You should text him first if, youre reaching out to him to genuinely connect and communicate with him. If for any reason youre texting him based on worry, fear or anxiety. Such as, trying to “keep his interest” or manipulating him to do something for you. Or to fill some kind of void in your life.

Should I text him if I havent heard from him?

Is he just really busy? If you havent heard from him in a week, should you text him? If you havent heard from a guy in a week, chances are hes just not that into and you shouldnt text him. When a man is truly interested, it becomes very obvious and he wont be hot-and-cold with his effort.

How many days should I wait before texting him?

You may be worried that youre being held down by the arbitrary three-day rule, but fortunately, it may turn out youre doing more worrying than necessary. According to experts, the best rule of thumb is that you should text someone within 24 hours after a first date.